Loss and comfort

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“And this day has been especially hard for all of you because you are in the caring business. You work with your hearts.”

These words were spoken by the head of the crisis team that came to my school last week. That day, that especially hard day, a student, on his way to school, was struck by a car. He passed away.

At one point, after the crisis team spoke, a co-worker pointed out that ten minutes before this happened, the child’s mom was probably calling him, urging him to hurry up, get your coat on. It’s time for school.

And then, he was gone.

Two days later, that same co-worker turned to me, as we stood at the condolence book for the family, in the memorial that is the centrepiece of our school library, and asked “What can I say? What do I write?”

In those two days, between the loss and the moments of comfort, we tried to find the words to help our students.

The photo next to the condolence book is of a little boy with a smile and glowing eyes.

There are no words.

West Coast Beauty

Had a wonderful Canadian Thanksgiving with my girl and her West Coast family of friends. First time ever that I cooked Thanksgiving dinner – split between the vegetarians and the turkey lovers….it was amazing.

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A beautiful university student style Thanksgiving table!

 

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Deep Cove

 

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We had a long, amazingly beautiful hike – with this breathtaking view as a reward

 

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My girl – a true West Coast beauty!

The start of something new….

Tonight I launched my THIRD blog, in honour of a new adventure that I will embark on next May.

Come by and visit.

(mom)@(mac)

There will be much less of this……

Walk on the beach
walking on the beach…..

and much more of this…..

taking chances......
trying new adventures…..